What does it mean when you want to romanticize your life? It’s about finding beauty in the everyday moments, embracing small things you love, and cultivating mindfulness and appreciation of your experiences. 

But how do you get started? Here are some tips. 

Create and maintain your routines. 

What are the ordinary moments that go into your morning and evening routines? Turn these into rituals. Savor your morning coffee by drinking it slowly in a nice mug, and maybe take a few minutes to sit by the window, listen to calming music, or read the book that you’re currently reading. 

Practice mindfulness. 

Honestly, when I first heard of mindfulness, I was a tad skeptical. Being aware of your mind? That’s what I assumed it was. But the more I looked into it, mindfulness is when you are present in the moment. This is when you pay attention to your surroundings and the little details that make up your day. Be aware. Be present, whether it’s enjoying a meal, taking a walk, or having a conversation. This is when you stay off your phone! For example, it is so easy to tune into a podcast or audiobook on your hot girl walk, or watch TikTok videos, but take out your earphones and listen to the sound of your own thoughts.  

Decorate with intention. 

Look at your space around you! Add small touches to your space that inspire joy and comfort—this includes soft lighting, fresh flowers, cozy blankets, or art that makes you smile. Your environment should feel like a reflection of what brings you happiness. 

Curate a playlist! 

Create playlists that evoke the mood you want for the day. Whether it’s relaxing, upbeat, or nostalgic music, a good soundtrack can make daily activities more enjoyable and meaningful. 

Find joy in the simple things. 

Notice the beauty in mundane tasks like cooking, cleaning, or organizing. Light a candle while you tidy up, cook a meal from scratch with love, or write a letter to a friend. These small actions can help you appreciate your life more. 

Dress for the life you want. 

Wear clothes that make you feel good, even if you’re just lounging at home. Dressing up a little can lift your spirits and make everyday moments feel more special. 

Seek out nature. 

Spend time outside whenever possible. Whether it’s a walk in the park, tending to a small garden, or simply sitting on your balcony, nature has a way of grounding and calming us. 

Celebrate the little wins. 

Give yourself credit for the small things you accomplish, like finishing a book, making a nice dinner, or simply getting through a tough day. Treat yourself when you hit milestones, no matter how minor they seem. 

Take photos! 

Capture moments that make you feel good or remind you of the beauty in your life. You don’t have to share them with anyone—just keep them as a reminder of the small moments of joy you experienced. 

Nurture yourself. 

Prioritize self-care. Take baths, journal, read, or do something that makes you feel recharged. When you care for yourself, life feels more romantic because you’re investing in your well-being. 

By intentionally slowing down and adding beauty to your everyday moments, you can start to romanticize your life and feel more connected to the present.