Tips For Annotating Books: How and What to Annotate In Romance Books

Something I’ve started doing with romance books—and honestly, books in other genres, too—is annotating. This means highlighting and underlining key scenes, dialogue, themes, plot/character development, and favorite moments. I recently did this with one of my favorite books of 2023—I had initially highlighted and annotated that on my first read through, but highlighted even more on my second read through.

Have you ever annotated books? Maybe you have, but you wanted to refresh on how to do it. Maybe you never have before, and want to try! Either way, know that you can annotate however you want—there is no one right way. Here are some tips on how to annotate books, including how and what to annotate. Specifically romance books, because obviously, that’s my favorite genre.

Highlight key passages.

Have you ever come across a passage that resonates so deeply with you, is important to the plot, or honestly, really confusing? Mark passages that reveal important information about characters or the plot. Highlighting these parts will help you not only commit it to memory, but also understand it more thoroughly. Additionally, highlight quotes that resonate with you! Use different colors to note different themes: one can be for the romance, one can be for ones that make you cry, etc. For example, in romance books, highlight the parts that truly capture the essence of the romance.

Note significant (and insignificant) character development.

Is the main character showing any signs of change, development in behaviors, beliefs, or relationships? What changes are the characters showing? When exactly are they showing feelings? When have the characters stopped arguing and actually realizing they have feelings for each other? (This may be different times for each character.) Jot down first impressions and how they evolve over time.

Look for themes and symbols.

Identify the recurring themes such as love, trust, betrayal, or personal growth. Look for symbols that add depth to the story. Underline, underline, underline! These don’t have to be serious or anything. Commenting “omg,” “LOL,” or “this is so cute” are all perfectly understandable (by me, who have written these in my favorite books).

Record emotional reactions.

Did you have a reaction to a particular scene? (Example: me reacting to anything Will Griffin does in Practice Makes Perfect by Sarah Adams.) Record your emotional responses to these certain scenes or interactions. You can do so by writing in the margins, and highlighting and underlining key words and sentences. In the margins, you can reflect on how the romance makes you feel and why.

Pick out plot points!

Are there any points in the plot that you want to revisit? (Possibly for twisty thrillers or key romance scenes?) Summarize and highlight key plot developments and twists! You can also note any foreshadowing or unresolved questions—this will help later on when the book has reached that final moment where everything clicks.

Note any favorite moments!

My favorite part about annotating is highlighting my favorite moments. These are the dialogue and scenes that make me squeal and giggle. I love revisiting these later on, when I’m done reading the book, when I need to smile. Mark your favorite romantic scenes or dialogue. Write about why these moments stand out to you, whether that’s in the margins or in a book journal.

What’s the writing style like?

Pay attention to the author’s writing style and how it contributes to the plot, but also how you like it. Do you like this author’s writing style? Maybe they use third person when it shouldn’t be used. Maybe they don’t use quotation marks to note dialogue (hi, Sally Rooney). Also, note any particularly beautiful or effective prose.

Ask questions or predictions.

Write down any questions that arise as you read. What part of the plot or characters is confusing you? Are there any characters that confuse the heck out of you? What would you ask the author? Additionally, make predictions about how the story will unfold and see if they come true. (This will be REALLY funny when you look back after you finish the book and see whether your predictions will come true.)

Look out for connections to other works.

Try and compare the romance book to other books that you’ve read. Are there any similarities or differences in themes, character dynamics, or plot structures? Note these and determine whether you have a preference for similar tropes or themes.

Finally, personal reflections.

How does the story relate to your own experience or beliefs about romance? How did this book make you feel? Write in the margins, in the back pages of the book, or in your book journal? Write about any lessons or insights you gain from the book.


What’s your favorite way to annotate? Do you annotate at all? Let me know in the comments!


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