Cross stitching is a timeless and enjoyable craft that has been practiced for centuries. Its appeal lies in its simplicity, creativity, and the satisfaction of creating something beautiful with your own hands. Whether you're a complete newbie or someone looking to jump back into this delightful hobby, here's everything you need to know before diving into the world of cross stitching. 

What is cross stitch?  

Cross stitching involves creating X-shaped stitches on a woven fabric, typically Aida cloth or linen, using embroidery floss or thread. The fabric is divided into a grid of squares, with each square representing a single stitch. Patterns are typically represented on a grid, with each square corresponding to a stitch color and placement.

What do you need? 

• Fabric: Choose a fabric with a suitable count, which refers to the number of stitches per inch. Common counts include 14, 16, and 18. For newbies, I recommend aida 14 count. It’s simple and you are able to see the stitches easily. 

• Embroidery floss: Invest in quality floss made from cotton or silk, available in a wide range of colors. When you order a kit, the embroidery floss comes with it. Taking a trip to Michael’s every time you run out of floss is a hassle (but sometimes that’s what you have to do).  

• Needles: Use blunt-tipped tapestry needles in sizes appropriate for your fabric count. Choose the numbered needle depending on your fabric count (for 14 aida, I recommend using needles 16-22).

• Hoops or Frames: I was taught to use a hoop at all times, but some do not use one. A hoop helps keep the fabric taut while stitching, making the process easier and ensuring uniform stitches. 

Selecting patterns

Start with simple designs if you're a beginner, and gradually work your way up to more intricate patterns. There are countless sources for cross-stitch patterns, including books, websites, and kits available for purchase. For newbies, start with a kit. You get everything you need in a kit. Make the patterns fun! I found some great culture-themed patterns on Etsy, including Taylor Swift album designs. Consider your skill level, interests, and intended use of the finished piece when choosing a pattern. 

Where to buy cross-stitch patterns:

• NatXstitches (Etsy) has great pop culture themed patterns! I downloaded a few of her patterns of Taylor Swift (Taylor’s Version) albums, including Speak Now (TV), Red (TV), 1989 (TV), and Midnights. They’re small, and great to start with for newbies!

• SydneyStitchesCo (Etsy) also has fun, Taylor Swift-themed cross-stitch and embroidery patterns. Hers are more artistic and designed by her, including this Anti-Hero themed pattern.

• Etsy! Like the two shops above, Etsy has tons of great, fun cross-stitch patterns that you can download as a PDF. Some don’t come as a kit, so you have to go to your local craft store for floss.

Where can I cross-stitch?

Anywhere! But for the most comfortable and effective workspace, choose a well-lit and comfortable space to work in, with a flat surface to support your fabric and supplies. I like to work either at my desk or on my couch. Organize your threads and other materials to minimize clutter and make it easier to find what you need. Consider using a needle minder or magnet to keep track of your needles when not in use.

What are the basic stitches? 

The most fundamental stitch in cross stitching is the cross stitch, which forms an X shape. Other common stitches include the "backstitch" for outlining and adding finer details, and the "half stitch" for creating subtle shading effects. Most likely, you’ll use the cross-stitch most of the time. 

Practice these stitches on a spare piece of fabric before starting your project to familiarize yourself with the techniques. 

How do I needle a thread?

Needling a thread for cross stitch can be tricky. Here's a step-by-step guide on how to do it.

1. Cut the Thread: Begin by cutting a piece of embroidery floss to the desired length. The length will depend on the size of your project and personal preference, but typically, a comfortable length is around 18-24 inches (45-60 cm).

2. Separate Strands (if needed): Most embroidery floss comes with multiple strands twisted together. For cross stitch, you'll use two strands at a time. Separate the desired number of strands by gently pulling them apart. I recommend getting a needle minder for this!

3. Thread the Needle: Take one end of the separated floss and thread it through the eye of your embroidery needle. Hold the needle in one hand and the end of the floss in the other.

4. Twist and Pinch: If the floss end is fraying, twist it gently between your fingers to create a point. This will make it easier to thread through the needle's eye. Once you have a point, pinch the thread tightly between your thumb and forefinger.

5. Guide through the Eye: With the floss end pinched tightly, guide it through the eye of the needle. Sometimes it helps to hold the needle steady while pulling the thread through with your other hand.

6. Pull Through: Once the thread is through the eye of the needle, gently pull it until there's a few inches of thread left hanging from the needle. Be careful not to pull too hard, as this can cause the floss to slip back through the needle's eye.

7. Secure the Thread: Tie a small knot at the end of the thread to prevent it from pulling through the fabric as you stitch. You can also leave a small tail of thread on the backside of your fabric and secure it with your first few stitches.

8. Begin Stitching: With your needle threaded and secured, you're ready to start stitching your cross stitch design!

Techniques for starting and finishing

To start a new thread, anchor it securely on the back of your fabric by weaving it through previous stitches. When finishing a thread, secure it on the back of your work by running it under nearby stitches before cutting the excess. Take care to keep the back of your stitching neat, as it can affect the appearance of the front.

Oh no! I made a mistake.

We’ve all been there. To avoid common mistakes, like counting incorrectly or not having enough tension, try some of these tips. Ensure your stitches are neither too loose nor too tight to maintain uniformity. Avoid knotting your thread when starting or finishing, as they can create lumps and bumps on the front of your work. Embrace mistakes as part of the learning process and don't be afraid to unpick stitches when needed.

What to do when you’re finished with your cross stitch

Once you've completed your stitching, consider framing it, turning it into a pillow, or incorporating it into other craft projects. Take pride in your finished piece and display it prominently in your home or give it as a thoughtful handmade gift.

To learn more about cross-stitch and find more cool patterns, visit The Spruce.com, in their crafts section! They have a page dedicated to cross-stitch where seasoned cross-stitchers give advice and patterns to choose from.

Cross stitching is a delightful hobby that offers a creative outlet and a sense of accomplishment with each completed project. By mastering the basics and honing your skills over time, you'll find endless opportunities to express your creativity and create beautiful works of art with just a needle and thread. So gather your supplies, select a pattern, and let your imagination soar as you embark on your cross stitching journey. Happy stitching!